Some thoughts
"Kung hindi mo mahal ang isang tao, wag ka nang magpakita ng motibo para mahalin ka nya.."
(If you don’t love a person, don’t even show a motive for them to love you.)
"Huwag mong bitawan ang bagay na hindi mo kayang makitang hawak ng iba."
(Don’t let go of the thing that you cannot bear see others holding them.)
"Huwag mong hawakan kung alam mong bibitawan mo lang."
(Don’t hold on to something you know you’ll let go.)
"Huwag na huwag ka hahawak kapag alam mong may hawak ka na."
(Don’t you ever hold on to another when you know you’re already had something holding on to.)
"Parang elevator lang yan eh, bakit mo pagsisiksikan ung sarili mo kung walang pwesto para sayo. Eh meron naman hagdan, ayaw mo lang pansinin."
(It’s just like an elevator, why would you try to squeeze yourself in if there is no more space for you. There is the stairs, you're just ignore it.)
"Kung maghihintay ka nang lalandi sayo, walang mangyayari sa buhay mo... Dapat lumandi ka din."
(If you wait for someone to flirt with you, nothing will happen. You have to flirt also.)
"Pag may mahal ka at ayaw sayo, hayaan mo. Malay mo sa mga susunod na araw ayaw mo na din sa kanya, naunahan ka lang."
(If you love someone who doesn’t love you, let it be. For all you know on the days ahead, you won’t love that person anymore, it’s just that the person felt the same first.)
"Hiwalayan na kung di ka na masaya. Walang gamot sa tanga kundi pagkukusa."
(Leave if you’re not happy anymore. There is no cure for being a fool but by being initiative.)
"Pag hindi ka mahal ng mahal mo wag ka magreklamo. Kasi may mga tao rin na di mo mahal pero mahal ka.. Kaya quits lang."
(If the person doesn’t love you, do not complain, because there are people who loves you but you don’t love them back, so it’s just fair.)
"Kung dalawa ang mahal mo, piliin mo yung pangalawa. Kasi hindi ka naman magmamahal ng iba kung mahal mo talaga yung una."
(If you have two loves, pick the second person, because you won’t love another when you really love the first.)
"Hindi porke't madalas mong ka-chat, kausap sa telepono, kasama sa mga lakad o ka-text ng wantusawa eh may gusto sayo at magkakatuluyan kayo. Meron lang talagang mga taong sadyang friendly, sweet, flirt, malandi, pa-fall o paasa."
(Not because you chat constantly, talk over the phone, accompany you or exchanged SMS messages all the time doesn’t mean you are liked or you’ll end up together. There are people who are just overfriendly, sweet, flirt or makes you hope.)
"Huwag magmadali sa babae o lalaki. Tatlo, lima , sampung taon, mag-iiba ang pamantayan mo at maiisip mong hindi pala tamang pumili ng kapareha dahil lang maganda o nakakalibog ito. Totong mas mahalaga ang kalooban ng tao higit sa anuman. Sa paglipas ng panahon, maging ang mga crush ng bayan nagmumukha ding pandesal, maniwala ka."
(Don’t hurry with a girl or a boy, Three, five or ten years later, your standard will change and you’ll be thinking it is not right to pick a partner just because they are good looking or sexy. It is true that personality is important above all. Time passes, even the person you are infatuated with will look like a piece of bread, believe me.)
"Minsan kahit ikaw ang nakaschedule, kailangan mo pa rin maghintay, kasi hindi ikaw ang priority."
(Sometimes even if you are in schedule, you still have to wait, because you are not the priority.)
"Mahirap pumapel sa buhay ng tao. Lalo na kung hindi ikaw yung bida sa script na pinili nya."
(It’s hard to play a role in other people’s lives, especially if you are not the hero in the script the person chooses.)
"Alam mo ba kung gaano kalayo ang pagitan ng dalawang tao pag nagtalikuran na sila? Kailangan mong libutin ang buong mundo para lang makaharap ulit ang taong tinalikuran mo."
(Do you know how far is the space between two people who turned back from each other? You need to go around the world just to come face to face with the other person again.)
“Mas mabuting mabigo sa paggawa ng isang bagay kesa magtagumpay sa paggawa ng wala”
(It is better to fail in doing something, than to succeed in doing nothing.)
“Hindi lahat ng kaya mong intindihin ay katotohan, at hindi lahat ng hindi mo kayang intindihin ay kasinungalingan”
(Not all you can understand is the truth, and not all you cannot fathom is a lie.)
"Kung nagmahal ka ng taong di dapat at nasaktan ka, wag mong sisihin ang puso mo. Tumitibok lng yan para mag-supply ng dugo sa katawan mo. Ngayon, kung magaling ka sa anatomy at ang sisisihin mo naman ay ang hypothalamus mo na kumokontrol ng emotions mo, mali ka pa rin! Bakit? Utang na loob! Wag mong isisi sa body organs mo ang mga sama ng loob mo sa buhay! Tandaan mo: magiging masaya ka lang kung matututo kang tanggapin na hindi ang puso, utak, atay o bituka mo ang may kasalanan sa lahat ng nangyari sayo, kundi IKAW mismo!"
(If you love the wrong person and you get hurt, don’t blame your heart. It is only beating to supply blood in your body. Now, if you are an expert in anatomy and you’ll blame your hypothalamus that controls your emotions, you’re still wrong! Why? For goodness sakes! Don’t blame your body organs to all your burdens in life! Remember: You’ll only be truly happy if you will learn to accept that it is not your heart, brain, liver or intestines who are at fault to all that happens in your life, but YOU!)
"Pakawalan mo yung mga bagay na nakakasakit sa iyo kahit na pinasasaya ka nito. Wag mong hintayin ang araw na sakit na lang ang nararamdaman mo at iniwan ka na ng kasiyahan mo."
(Let go of the things that hurts you even though they make you happy. Don’t wait for the day that only pain remains and happiness has left you.)
"Gamitin ang puso para alagaan ang mga taong malalapit sa iyo. Gamitin ang utak para alagaan ang sarili mo."
(Use your heart to care for people who are close to you. Use your brain to take care of yourself.)
"Ang pag-ibig parang imburnal...nakakatakot mahulog...at kapag nahulog ka, it's either by accident or talagang tanga ka..."
(Love is like a man hole…it is scary to fall in…and when you do, it’s either by accident or you’re just plain dumb.)
